Balance. The ability to keep everything in your life in harmony. With Twins or Triplets? Are you kidding? "Not happening" is what you are probably thinking. Now is the time in your life when you need to look your spouse in the eyes and start trading off the chores around the house and baby care. Needs to be a little 'give and take". Tis the season for giving right? Perhaps Mom gets up at 5 AM showers, gets the twins changed, fed and ready if spouse will let Mom sleep in till 10 AM on Saturday. Everything is negotiable when you have multiple birth children. Help each other. Communicate your needs to each other. What might be important to you may not be to your spouse. Seek the balance. Communicate. You are partners. Pass the love...